How to Calm The Incessant Crying Of a Child? Tips Psychologists

The kid was tired - Crying
Wants to sleep - Crying
Hungry - Crying
Hurt - Crying

Versatile way to express negative feelings for the little man, so he is crying a lot and often. How to calm the incessant roar of this? Psychologists believe this is best done with the game.

How to calm a baby

If you have a baby ass washed and changed his diaper, and he was still shouting angrily, play around with it in the "Ti-ti-ti." Your fingers are stepping up golenkomu calf from the legs to the neck and lightly tickle him, and you're saying: "ti-ti-ti", and then down - from the neck to the legs, while not replace the tears of laughter.

Some babies wake up after a nap in a bad mood and cry for half an hour. Develop your child you smiled upon awakening. For example, layette game with him, "Knock, knock. Anybody home? "Do this several times. Maybe not right away, but the kid will appreciate your idea.

Bring the loudmouth in the mirror and ask, "Where is our boy? There he is! "You are thrilled to have found her baby? He, too!

How easy to play hide and seek with the baby: you can close the face with your hands or a handkerchief, and then look out happily. Before that, it disappeared from the field of view of a child ceased to exist for him. Now he knows that you have not gone away, you are somewhere here, nearby. And he was so happy to see my mother again!

The kid does not want to sit in the crib or playpen while you spin around in the kitchen. And all the while bellowing. But you can be in two places at once! Record the song on tape or a fairy tale and put this little record. My mother's voice make him listen and do not scream.

Child ... from one to three

Kid roars and did not want to hear? Then we do not say anything to him. And silently drips into the saucer dish-washing liquid and juice through a straw from start to blow bubbles. As they float and shimmer beautifully! And ... suddenly burst! Next to us, no one is crying? Of course, not crying, and happily catching bubbles.

Every kid when learning to walk - is falling. Will it be with the crying or not - depends on your response. If you're scared, picked up the baby, it will become a feel - it also scared and cry. And if you say, "Nothing happens" - "Sometimes" - responds after a while he did. And quietly rises from the floor.
You all day was not at home, you just set foot on the threshold, as a kid, seeing you, burst into tears. So it shows that he was lonely, he missed you and another day of such a separation would not survive. Immediately take the hurt in his arms and be engaged in the next half hour only to them.

Dad comes home late after dinner and wants to play with the baby. A baby for the day tired, it's time to sleep and did not want to play in the airplane and fly to daddy's arms to the ceiling. Perhaps that is why some of the children, seeing my father returned from work, begin to roar. Pope, reset the pace! In the evening, the kids need to read stories, sing songs and lay them gently to sleep.

A child is naughty, and your finger - naughty. You just cannot cope with his finger; he touched it to his nose, then to the ears, the cheeks to the baby. "How bad are you acting like this" - you say finger. He bent down and "hung his head," as a tomboy who just naprokaznichal. "Do you promise to reform?" - "Yes" - nodding your finger. The kid is excited about this show and the tears dried up long ago.

Baby ... three to five years

Soft toys - and your allies in the fight back tears. They know a lot of ways on how to bring a smile to the face of the baby. Let's favorite teddy bear roaring owner says: "Do not cry, do you see what I'm hilarious!" And you can contrast: ask baby kitten plush comfort or separate the fighting bunnies.

What better (and maybe worse?) - Endure the mournful whine or eliminate the mess in the kitchen? Easier for me to pick up scattered on the floor pan. The kid did not whine; let it cook anything with you. Of course, first you have to constantly wipe up spilled water and start from the rumble of the fallen lids, but by the age of seven your child is able to please parents own a cooked breakfast or dinner.
Baby just plunged into the game, as you call him, or have a swim. Naturally, he starts to cry and resist. Give him five minutes to finish the game, then two more minutes and you calmly, without tears, proceed to the next lesson.

When children quarrel and roaring over toys, you better step aside. Child psychologists have studied how such disputes are usually resolved, and came to the conclusion that the toy is almost always goes to the owner. At this age, children are painfully aware that the truth - on the side of the owner.

What if you change places with whimsical child roles? Let it be a mom or dad, and you - his crying daughter. If you listen to the words with which he comforts you, you will see yourself from the outside, and it will help edit their pedagogical techniques: to become softer with the baby or, conversely, more severe.

And do not be discouraged. Who children grew up without crying? And now we're on that stage when they were babies, just remember with a nostalgic smile.

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