The kid was tired - Crying
Wants to sleep - Crying
Hungry - Crying
Hurt - Crying
Versatile way to
express negative feelings for the little man, so he is crying a lot and often. How to calm the incessant roar of
this? Psychologists
believe this is best done with the game.
How to calm a baby
If you have a baby
ass washed and changed his diaper, and he was still shouting angrily, play
around with it in the "Ti-ti-ti." Your
fingers are stepping up golenkomu calf from the legs to the neck and lightly
tickle him, and you're saying: "ti-ti-ti", and then down - from the
neck to the legs, while not replace the tears of laughter.
Some babies wake up
after a nap in a bad mood and cry for half an hour. Develop
your child you smiled upon awakening. For example, layette game with
him, "Knock, knock. Anybody home? "Do this
several times. Maybe not right away,
but the kid will appreciate your idea.
Bring the loudmouth
in the mirror and ask, "Where is our boy? There
he is! "You are thrilled to have found her baby? He, too!
How easy to play hide
and seek with the baby: you can close the face with your hands or a
handkerchief, and then look out happily. Before
that, it disappeared from the field of view of a child ceased to exist for him.
Now
he knows that you have not gone away, you are somewhere here, nearby. And he was so happy to see my mother
again!
The kid does not want
to sit in the crib or playpen while you spin around in the kitchen. And all the while bellowing. But you can be in two places at
once! Record
the song on tape or a fairy tale and put this little record. My mother's
voice make him listen and do not scream.
Child ... from one to three
Kid roars and did not
want to hear? Then
we do not say anything to him. And
silently drips into the saucer dish-washing liquid and juice through a straw
from start to blow bubbles. As they float and shimmer
beautifully! And ... suddenly
burst! Next to us, no
one is crying? Of
course, not crying, and happily catching bubbles.
Every kid when
learning to walk - is falling. Will
it be with the crying or not - depends on your response. If
you're scared, picked up the baby, it will become a feel - it also scared and
cry. And
if you say, "Nothing happens" - "Sometimes" - responds
after a while he did. And
quietly rises from the floor.
You all day was not
at home, you just set foot on the threshold, as a kid, seeing you, burst into
tears. So
it shows that he was lonely, he missed you and another day of such a separation
would not survive. Immediately
take the hurt in his arms and be engaged in the next half hour only to them.
Dad comes home late
after dinner and wants to play with the baby. A
baby for the day tired, it's time to sleep and did not want to play in the
airplane and fly to daddy's arms to the ceiling. Perhaps
that is why some of the children, seeing my father returned from work, begin to
roar. Pope, reset the pace! In
the evening, the kids need to read stories, sing songs and lay them gently to
sleep.
A child is naughty,
and your finger - naughty. You
just cannot cope with his finger; he touched it to his nose, then to the ears,
the cheeks to the baby. "How bad are you
acting like this" - you say finger. He
bent down and "hung his head," as a tomboy who just naprokaznichal. "Do you
promise to reform?" - "Yes" - nodding your finger. The kid is
excited about this show and the tears dried up long ago.
Baby ... three to five years
Soft toys - and your
allies in the fight back tears. They
know a lot of ways on how to bring a smile to the face of the baby. Let's
favorite teddy bear roaring owner says: "Do not cry, do you see what I'm
hilarious!" And you can contrast: ask baby kitten plush comfort or
separate the fighting bunnies.
What better (and
maybe worse?) - Endure the mournful whine or eliminate the mess in the kitchen?
Easier
for me to pick up scattered on the floor pan. The
kid did not whine; let it cook anything with you. Of
course, first you have to constantly wipe up spilled water and start from the
rumble of the fallen lids, but by the age of seven your child is able to please
parents own a cooked breakfast or dinner.
Baby just plunged
into the game, as you call him, or have a swim. Naturally, he starts
to cry and resist. Give
him five minutes to finish the game, then two more minutes and you calmly, without
tears, proceed to the next lesson.
When children quarrel
and roaring over toys, you better step aside. Child
psychologists have studied how such disputes are usually resolved, and came to
the conclusion that the toy is almost always goes to the owner. At
this age, children are painfully aware that the truth - on the side of the
owner.
What if you change
places with whimsical child roles? Let it be a
mom or dad, and you - his crying daughter. If
you listen to the words with which he comforts you, you will see yourself from
the outside, and it will help edit their pedagogical techniques: to become
softer with the baby or, conversely, more severe.
And do not be
discouraged. Who
children grew up without crying? And
now we're on that stage when they were babies, just remember with a nostalgic
smile.
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